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Old Jun 30, 2020, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted by busymomof5 View Post
Self-blame will get me a pity party table for 1. I do have many blessings to count.

I am not a possession, but I don’t make money. Our deductible is 10k. With the kids needs, we don’t have money for therapy tbh. I don’t think he’s controlling me in the way you think. He pays for my psychiatrist. Also, with covid he got a 12.5% paycut as an essential worker. Some of our costs come from having 2 children with autism. It’s expensive
I hear you, busy mom. You shouldl check with your county mental health division and see what options they have for therapy for residents. It may be that there are cheaper options. Is there a psychology graduate school in your area or town? Those grad students must do work in the clinic to get their degrees. Many are very helpful. I went to one when I was a resident at Vanderbilt, she was awesome and it was a lot less expensive. So, check that out. Find out who is training therapists in your area.
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