I am not sure how I would feel of I knew somebody who say the same therapist.

I did find out after my T's passing that a friend of mine had seen her as well but stopped a couple of years before. She was sad and told me she had tried to reconnect and see the therapist about a year before T died but T never returned her call. For some reason I was very protective of T because the T I knew wouldn't let that happen. There must have been something to explain why T would not at least return her call