I don't think we have that kind of therapy in my country. Maybe I can work it out online therapy, thank you.

But as a general question, if you are in my shoes or his shoes what would you do?

You have a partner who has very sick parents, who occupy all his or her time and your partner has almost no time for you, is tired all the time, pessimistic, and you are never intimate anymore. What would you do?

Is it noble from him to invest all his time and energy into care of his parents, and even his job, and everything, or is it too much? Am i Selfish and should I wait for him to be more available or is it unfair for him to put me on wait for God know how long and not even try to maintain some way to see me?