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Originally Posted by Biba_yu
I don't think we have that kind of therapy in my country. Maybe I can work it out online therapy, thank you.
But as a general question, if you are in my shoes or his shoes what would you do?
You have a partner who has very sick parents, who occupy all his or her time and your partner has almost no time for you, is tired all the time, pessimistic, and you are never intimate anymore. What would you do?
^He’s not your partner if all his time is spent elsewhere. 
Is it noble from him to invest all his time and energy into care of his parents, and even his job, and everything, or is it too much?
^This is his choice and you have no say about it. All you can do is enrich your own life.
Am i Selfish and should I wait for him to be more available or is it unfair for him to put me on wait for God know how long and not even try to maintain some way to see me? |
^Never let yourself hang in limbo for anything. You are only wasting your precious time.
There’s a book I love called, “He’s Just Not That Into You”. There was a movie made based on the book, but read the book and I don’t like the movie. There’s a line they say, “Don’t waste the pretty.” It means, don’t wait around for someone who’s not coming through for you.