My husband is currently love bombing me. He's in the love bombing phase of abuse. Now he's showering me with loads of love and affection. The other day he tried to "normalize" his rage and abuse towards me, making it seem as though everyone fights nasty with each other that way. BS. I know better. He is trying to normalize his abuse, then love bomb me to make me forget about it and forgive him. It's not going to work.

I am trying to extricate myself from this marriage very cautiously. I am not telling him anything, while I am secretly talking to lawyers and planning my exit from the marriage and relationship..

He's explosive and volatile. The littlest thing can set him off. It's like walking through a mine field, never knowing when you may step on one.

So now he's love bombing me trying to get me to forget that he called me a B last weekend.

I am SO done. I want this to end as soon as possible. I am worn out from the abuse, and I am sick from it mentally and emotionally. It's been one long roller coaster ride with him. Ups and many downs. Too much drama, too much fighting, and nasty fighting at that.