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Originally Posted by divine1966
You don’t have to answer. But the reason I post these questions is mostly for you to think, If you don’t consider all ins and outs, you (not just you, anyone!) end up in bad rushed situations. You don’t have to answer for my sake of course, just to think of it for your own sake. This Florida plan isn’t thought through. So it’s not even their own place. Retirement facilities typically don’t accommodate other tenants.
And they might not consider it emergency. They might consider it yet another one of his ill conceived immature rushed ideas. Personally I don’t consider it emergency. Sure maybe one needs 5-6K to move but why doesn’t he have any money saved. If the person doesn’t have even measly 5 k in their bank account, they absolutely shouldn’t be getting married. They should get themselves in a better shape. He gets married in a rush but has nothing saved for basic moves or emergencies. His parents might say enough of this nonsense, son, you need to grow up. You don’t know what they are going to say or do or what they think is an emergency. You don’t know them well enough. They might be sick of his immaturity and will show tough love
I didn’t want you to her all excited about something that might not even be a possibility. Don’t mean to overwhelm you.
Wish you the best
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Thanks....
Of course it's not thought through. I'm in a crisis! I'm being bullied and abused, and I am trying to get rid of my husband and kick him out of the home in the easiest way possible. He has GOT to leave. He has mentioned moving to Florida many times, so now I want to take him up on it.
My father consults with elderly in elderly homes. My husband's parents rent their apartment in this living facility. My dad says my husband can probably stay short term as a guest/visitor but not live there long term.
We are not financially well off, either one of us. I have zero savings right now and my husband is financially not stable OR responsible.
We're in a predicament, and I am in a crisis.