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I really just need to come out and ask T what to do in these situations.

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When I was in your your place last fall, this is exactly what I did. Only I was having so much trouble communicating then that I did it via an email message. I was starting to engage in therapy and wanted to know the boundaries of our therapeutic relationship. I sent my T a list of assumptions/expectations/suggestions for dealing with session overflow. She was kind enough to go through each one with me in during our next session. This made me feel much better because I didn't worry anymore about being too needy, or crossing a boundary, for having some false expectation.