Your description of your therapist is proof that just because someone has a board license to practice counseling doesn't mean they are mentally healthy themselves. I've had a few encounters with mentally ill therapists who were definitely in need of their own therapists.

If you don't like him and the way he makes you feel, then you need to report him to your city's medical licensing board for counselors and find another therapist.

If you choose to stay with this therapist, nothing will change.

So, the best option is to stop seeing this therapist and find a new one.

Why do you assume that it is your responsibility to change the way this therapist treats you. It's not.