This is what is called the honeymoon phase after an incident of abuse occurs. The honeymoon phase is when the abuser showers their victim with love and affection, flowers, gifts and attention. The intention and goal is to get the victim to forget and forgive the abusive incident. If the abuser can be sooo loving, then how can they be abusive, right? The honeymoon phase is a part of the cycle of abuse. Usually following an incident is a period of calm with no abuse.

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