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Old Jul 04, 2020, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I hoped he eventually paid his half for wedding and vacation. That’s a ton of money. Half of it sounds more reasonable.

I hope in the future you’ll see endings of relationships not as failures but as victories. Recognizing red flags and getting out isn’t a failure at all.
He did not pay for any of the vacation/honeymoon/wedding. I paid for the entire thing, including extras that we purchased while there. I spent over $8,000.

What a mistake.

And thanks so. much..... I really like that viewpoint!!!

Along those lines, at least I am getting myself out now vs 5-10 years from now. The writing is on the wall, and I know it's time to exit and asap. I refuse to waste the next ten years of my life living an emotional roller coaster, getting yelled at and mistreated periodically, being drained of all my extra funds, and being ultimately, unhappy. Life is FAR too short, as they say, and I believe in being happy!!!!!
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