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Old Jul 04, 2020, 07:36 PM
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It is appalling isn’t it?? I knew at the time he didn’t have extra funds to save or spend so I offered to pay. At the time, I didn’t realize what this indicated for me financially with him, ie, that he’d be such a financial burden to me in other ways. I didn’t mind paying then because I was just so happy to finally take a real vacation!.

What he paid for were our wedding rings.

And no, he never offered to pay me back. Even more appalling is he almost demanded that I spend an exorbitant amount on the “extras” beyond what my budget allowed. He didn’t care. He was so ungrateful. Then was a grump on the trip!!!! He has zero integrity.

Yes it’s appalling.

I have a thousand and one reasons to divorce him.
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