Living closer to my kid. She doesn’t want to or has reasons to live in my area (plus she is getting married so they’ll stay where they are at). And it’s very unlikely I’d ever move to hers. There is a slight possibility for us moving closer to my step daughter (when we retire), which is not a bad idea. But we likely will never live anywhere near my daughter so we just keep traveling back and forth. I accepted it on the most part but at times it saddens me. One can only travel that many times a year.