I am a mom. I sometimes say dumb stuff to my kid. Just because we are moms, doesn't mean we know how to say things to our kids, or anyone for that matter! It sounds like you're a nice person that respects her for who she is, right or wrong. Please know she loves you. Please just be you. Believe in yourself. We all have to experience things for ourselves. We are individuals and don't all want the same things. Remember to always treat yourself with respect and never do harm to yourself. Choose the path that is right for you, but don't take unnecessary risks. Mom has had her experiences in life and wants to protect you. Mom loves you and wants you to be safe and happy. Big hugs from this mom.