Roxanne please see this behavior is bad for you and dump this guy. He has way too many issues to be able to be a healthy partner for you. He is not good at all for your mental health. You can't change how this guy behaves either. You are really wasting your time being around him.

The whole mindset of an alcoholic is SO TOXIC and unhealthy and they ALWAYS blame others for their problems. This can take literally YEARS to correct and THEY have to want to change and do all the work.

If I learn someone has an active problem with alcohol, I do not want ANYTHING to do with them. They live in their own little FANTASY WORLD and they will literally BLOW UP when anyone puts any effort in to make them admit the truth.

There is a lot of narcissistic selfish behaviors when it comes to alcoholics/addicts. Way too unhealthy, LEAVE HIM and don't look back.