Nothing wrong with having sex. Just be prepared that he might get furious if you file for divorce any time soon (not like months or a year from now). I am not a volatile person but I’d be furious if a man contemplated divorce and already talked to divorce attorney yet slept with me because he has sexual needs and desires. This would push me over the edge and I don’t do nasty break ups. If your husband tends to have nasty breakups, it could certainly push him over the edge. If you two are still intimate, you might want to wait a bit with officially filing. You need amicable divorce as you need car lease issue resolved.

I am not criticizing you for having sex. It isn’t wrong. Just be mindful what you do while planning for divorce. Be careful. You don’t want him to get nasty

About him pinning you down. Do what your parents advised. Tell him to stop holding you down and tell him that it cannot ever happen again.