Thank You for the info on the book. I will look for it at the library. Many couples in our home town which is very small, have gone through this, and a few are divorced because of it. Seems that most of the divorces are the men finding younger women, and then those marriages fail also. The younger women want those guys with the money and cars and things. Then, they find out that an older man can't keep up with a young chic, and the wife usually gets all the nice things they worked for all those years, and she is left with an old man to take care of. It is a very frustrating, embarrising, time for me, as he acts like a 20 year old in restaurants, and flirts. This is something he has never done at all, and it just plain hurts. I am glad that I did some research to try to find out what is going on. And to all the young women out there. Be careful what you are doing!! The situation may look good at the time, but there are children and grandchildren involved, and if you are seeing dollar signs, most everyone has wills and trusts set up to go to their family. The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fencef! I am hanging in for the long haul unless something really bad happens. I have a lot of support of friends and family, even friends of his who see how silly he is acting. I have a good counselor, and my sons' house to go to if I need that who is only four miles away.