we know who it is... i have a restraining order... for all it's worth... but unless someone sees him do it... we just have to put up with it... he is in and out of jail... so when he is in jail ... nothing happens... i checked with the sheriff's and surprise he is no longer in custody... at least he is staying away from me now... but when i went to court to get the restraining order he would stand by my car... i had to be escorted in and out of court... i had to change my cell phone 2 times... i think he was somehow getting it from the court paperwork... which i was told wouldn't happen...lyn