How can people be ok with continually hurting you?

They can be very ok with it. They can be completely self centered and not care at all about you. They can be sadistic and take pleasure in hurting you.

It’s up to you to protect yourself and not let people hurt you.

You described your bf with not one good quality, rather many very bad ones. What good does he do for you? Why would you subject yourself to someone who does no good and only hurts you and offers you nothing? (No need to answer this, just food for thought)

Banned from the internet? I think closing that account in your name is a wise idea and no need to speak to him again to let him know.

I hope he’s not physically violent or vindictive. Be careful if this is the case.