No, he didn't call. He wrote me few messages of how he is still very sick and how he sleeps most of the day, but I am so tired of all this. When someome complains to you about health issues, you are normally symphatetic, you emphatise and feel for the person. But when someone complains about the same health issue for 3 months and does absolutely nothing about it, then, at least for me, it starts to get really annoying. It's like that joke when man prays to God to win the lottery. Finally, after so so so many praying God tells him "just buy a ticket already!".
I am sorry if this joke offended someone, I am not really even sure what is offensive now. But that is kinda point. You complain about something for months on and on, then DO something about it! I even offered him to pay him a doctor visit.

You are right, this is not how care or friendship looks, and I have given up on relationship years ago which is sad. I am so tired and broken.