Express how you feel when the abuse is ongoing in a manner that is uncomfrontational. Just inform them like its a fact. But when doing it make sure to state that what they are saying or doing is causing you to perceive the situation as this and is making feel like so. ... Their reaction afterwards will tell u of their intent. And honestly if their were being intentional ditch whoever it is they are not worth it. In the other hand mybe itll come out that they handnt realized the damage or hurt they were causing
My advice is communicate clearly in a calm manner what has been bothering you. If they react and attempt to start am arguement do not take then bait. Remain calm explain that you are not attacking them or wanting to fight. U are simply trying to inform of how you saw or perceived their words, actions, or intentions and that they caused unwanted thoughts, and feelings that upset you and exactly what way it is affecting u. When interacting with others and someone disrespects you and u get that knot inside u or ainxt always speak up or else the disrespect and ******** will continue .. You have to stand up for yourself. Just keep in mind that if they are intentionally disrepecting you they are most likely lookinh for a confrontation . Say your piece calmly do not take the bait if they start to flap off . Just continue explaining everything. This simple action, of letting things out snd doing so in a controlled manner allows you to release some of the tension, anger, or frustration thar their ignorance created. .... NEVER LET ANYONR DISREPECT OR BULLY U IN ANYWAY. .. STAND UP, SPEAK UP, RESPECT YOURSELF AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF ESPECIALLY EMOTIONALLUY AND MENTALLY. .. .. I had the same problem and i found this worked amazing. One thing i should give u a heads up on is that if the individuals are looking for conflict cerrtain individuals will continue theit abuse well putting on a.front. trying different angles to attempt to instigate a scene or have to react.to their stupudiry. Yes these few individuals are annoying and frustrating. I have come to the conclusion that certain individuals must be actually retarded. It takes a litlle while of repeating the whole drama however after a bit of you not feeding thier little drama they will of course back of and dispear after a while. ... important points. Do not react, talk and watch the way that you use ur words. Have patience.