It’s kind of scary not feeling well nowadays. What are his symptoms? Hope it’s nothing... If it’s nothing serious I can’t stand whining. Hope he goes to work soon

about your question. If he was normally peaceful not argumentative person, I’d ask if there was a better way to address the issue about not being invited to the group, if he normally never blows up, I’d probably consider that maybe my comment could be tweaked if it got him that upset.

But since he is blowing up all the time, it doesn’t really matter how you worded your comment. He’d get mad regardless. It doesn’t matter how you say it. Your parents are right. Personally I’d say “I didn’t know you want to be in this group, it didn’t occur to me, do you want to be in it? “

He never wants to be questioned. Things have to be on his terms at all times.