Thanks, @divine1966!!!

It's not COVID illness or symptoms he has. He never feels well. He constantly has stomach issues, OR is very tired and exhausted. This is normal for him.

And yes, he whines about it. it's NOT pleasant and it's NOT fun. It's a huge nuisance. He just wants attention. He's a big baby.

And thanks re: your feedback on my Facebook comment to him. I think your last sentence is the key in all of this: he never wants to be questioned, period. And he will blow up at me whenever he feels I am threatening his sense of total control in this relationship. Yes, everything has to be on HIS terms. And that includes being excluded from his circle of friends on Facebook.

What a classy person I married.