Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist
I try not to have them. I do have basic wishes,. Take meds right, eat, sleep, keep place cleanish, exercise, pray, not be so sick I have to go back to the hospital. I also wish for connection with others, to the extent that is possible for me.
I do tend to generally subscribe to the old timey AA/NA edict that more oftehn than not, expectations are just resentments that have not yet quite occurred. That fits for me.
|
That AA/NA edict sounds very reasonable and it's a good reminder.
I'm glad you are content with the basic wishes. I usually am, too, but I go through phases when I wish I had more. I usually have more expectations for myself than my husband has for me. He just wants me as well as possible and to keep loving him. I can definitely guarantee the latter.