Hmmm, maybe, if therapy wasn't tried before...it can be used as confirmation that the thing is over. I know that sounds weird...but you can tell where a person's heart is at when they are talking in the neutral zone of the counseling office. My ex and I did therapy and it was really a joke. By then we had been together for 25 years, marriage for 20...so there wasn't much a therapist could tell us. We didn't hate one another. We had grown apart is all. I would have preferred to stay married and work things out...but that takes two people. If one is looking at the exit door the whole time...well then...