"She's needy."

Whatever. Still passive aggressive and a bully attitude. You don't need to figure her out. You need to maintain good boundaries. If the way someone talks to you makes you feel uncomfortable...there is probably something wrong.

I just ended a long-term friendship where this kind of thing went on for years. It just got worse until I had enough.


The key to my realization was I finally realized that this person NEVER APOLOGIZED even when warranted.

Stay sane, safe, and protected....and NEVER let anyone talk to you in a demeaning way. I wish someone had told me this long ago.

Best of luck.