I can relate to Have Hope as I married late in life too (mine was second time) and I married quickly, we saw no reason to wait when it’s right. I think it’s not uncommon to marry late (first or second time) and many people do marry quickly. Maybe because I also married late and quickly I understand Hopes complaints, even though I don’t have same issues or in fact any marital issues. I still understand her issues because I know other people who have similar issues.

But on a deep level we can’t really relate to each other 100% because we all have different expectations of marriage and different deal breakers and different level of tolerance (mind you I have none lol). But I think we relate to other people’s marriages to some degree.