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Old Jul 08, 2020, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I think it’s wise to give him a chance. I gave my first husband no chance. I don’t regret at all and I am pretty sure we’d still get divorced at some point. And we both found much better match for 2nd marriage but he held it against me for awhile that I had zero interest in working on it. It’s wiser to try something so at least you’ll feel you were fair and didn’t just give up. Find a therapist and see how it goes.
You know, you make a great point. If it doesn’t work in the end, he can’t say I didn’t try. At this late age, I don’t want to feel blamed. It’s good you found the right marriage after the first. You knew what was best for you when you left him.
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