I'm sorry you've been through this. Lung cancer is vicious to watch.

I've texted with him and need to do that more. He hasn't seemed open to Zoom or the like. I think he doesn't want us to know how bad it really is at this point. That's why I was crying earlier; he's accepting assistive devices and just months ago he refused to consider them when I offered them.

I sent a card last week and signed it Love. That was not easy as we are not emotional people. But he needs to know I love him so I will be doing that again.

This is "no regrets" time. They had hoped to give him about 18 months with the chemo he did. So either it will have worked and his scans will be better and he'll have bought some time or the scans won't be better and the time will probably be shorter. Honestly the symptoms we're aware of aren't inspiring.

I dont' know when scans will be done.

It just breaks my heart.