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Originally Posted by divine1966
Did you tell therapist about things you find like condoms and lubricants and that he is secretive all of a sudden with his phone and wants to dig in your finances?
Going by other thread of yours he is cheating and planning on leaving and perhaps taking advantage of your money.
At this point I am not sure if therapist is the one you need to see. I think lawyer is needed here
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Divine, I was not able to get specific in the session. I did tell the doctor in my list of grievances that my husband is cheating. The doctor did not ask for details and did not address my concerns. My stbx also mentioned that I believe he is cheating but told the doctor he isn't cheating. My stbx is a liar, he never tells the truth, so I tend to believe the opposite of what he says.
I had started to call around for lawyers, but I put it aside for the therapy. I have locked my file cabinets, changed my phone and computer password, and will begin calling around for an attorney again.