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Old Jul 09, 2020, 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Out There View Post
Do you feel it lessens when this happens and you don't get triggered so much ?
It takes me a session or two but it does get better for awhile. About every 2 months or so he will do something again and it starts all over. I have never been one of these people that love my T. I do a lot of pushing and do not have any kind of pisitive attachment.

When he pushes me a bit I will sometimes feel unsafe which triggers me. He was also getting irritated at me for a few months over various things. That triggered me bad. We are in a good place for now; just getting over an episode.

He really is a great T but he is all about progress and won't let me get away with anything.
Thanks for this!
Out There