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Old Jul 10, 2020, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
i dont have the right answer but my husband and I have had counseling in the past for things not necessarily related to our marriage but a little bit. What helped in the beginning was for each of us to have a session alone first before our joint session so the therapist had time to see where we were both coming from.
Thank you, Sarahsweets, and nice to see you again on here.

I know one key ingredient to all of this is finding the best possible therapist. We need someone who is really good and very astute!

That's an interesting suggestion I hadn't thought of. I will see what they suggest, too, when we identify the right one.
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