1. I have been researching my move. The area I am moving to has very nice affordable housing for seniors who qualify. In fact, there seems to be quite a lot of it. Once again the eligibility is so low an income I don't qualify. But what I get from Society Security and a very small annuity is not going to get me rent in a safe location. I have the same problem whether I stay or go. I need to keep researching.

2. I have been reading things about retired people moving to be near their adult children and how sometimes it really backfires. I get along really well with my son but I don't know his girlfriend that well. I am going to have to be forthright and just discuss this with my son. I am tired of people not being forthright as it makes everything much more difficult. When I asked him what she thought about my moving near them he hesitated...then said...that she didn't have any reaction at all. That seems suspect - as she appears to be a very opinionated person. I need to let go of this situation as it is causing me a lot of anxiety.

I am going to sleep.