There's a lot of issues yes. He did not do a 180 turnaround. When he's angry he blames and is demanding. When he's not angry, he's his normal loving self. He's not blaming his dad... he is taking full responsibility for his behaviors to me. He is just agreeing with me that he's been modeling his father's behavior, but he's not blaming dad.

I know there's many issues. He agreed to therapy. And he's trying. Last night he told me that he is most sincere about all of this, that he he is committed to making changes, and that he wants to fight for me/us.

He's not 100% terrible. He needs help, and he will get help.

I am not thinking about divorce anymore. Not right now. One step at a time.