He states religious reasons for the asexuality... He was in a previous relationship for almost 15 years that ended when she died and he said he was never sexual with her because they were not married. He's a virgin he says at least but says many sexually charged things so I think it's bothering him...

I asked my more NT uncle about this (he's his late girlfriends son btw... My uncle's late girlfriend also being his sister in law...) Anyway my uncle says the guy seems very confused about what he wants....