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Originally Posted by BethRags
I agree with divine. Your son's gf probably really doesn't have much of a feeling one way or the other...most likely, she has anxiety about being judged by you (I think any partner has that concern about their partner's parent). That's most likely about as far as it goes.
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Thank you, thank you. Perhaps that goes both ways. I only met her once. I thanked her for being so supportive and loving with my son as he can get ornery. She said, "I love everything about him," and I said, "Good for you, I can't say that and I am his mother!" and she laughed and later told my son. Truly he does require a lot of patience so this is one thing I can say about her...she has a lot of patience. When I visited them (only one time) -- every evening before she would go off to work (she was working late shift) she would say goodbye to the dogs, hug and kiss my son, then come over and sit beside me and hug me and kiss me on the cheek. I thought that was very cute and affectionate and lovely.
I hate having anxiety. It makes problems where there are no problems.