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Old Jul 11, 2020, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Polibeth View Post
Husband informed me that he resents that I don't work full-time (I'm on SSDI) while he has to work in the 90+ degree heat. I just got out of 5 days IP along with having ECT so it's not like now is a good time to return to work, even part-time. He thinks I'm using mental illness as an excuse.

I'm going to have to have a chat with him tomorrow. I was so shocked today that I wasn't able to gather my thoughts and talk to him. I need to tell him that it is not my fault his job requires that he is exposed to the weather. He's emotionally abusive anyway but this has to stop.
Oh damn Thats awful for him to say that

When I was first diagnosed my Husband thought I was not working because I wanted to be lazy.. Oh hell it hurt, but My T Richard blasted off on him and made sure he understood that I have XYZ and there is no laziness going on..

If he is being Emotionally abusive then oh yeah that has to stop !! I am so sorry that your dealing with this

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