I don't know whether (whatever happens),it would be best for me to get some of the upset and angry feelings I have,off my chest to her.Maybe that would make things worse? I don't know-at least it would get it off my chest (I'd probably regret it afterwards and think I'd well and truly blown it) but according to most people's views I've nothing to lose anyway and I just feel that everything is on her terms so at least I'd have let her know my feelings on this occasion.I suppose,if I did that,that would be it for any chance of rescueing things,or who knows?? It would probably have to be in writing too which I'm not keen on the idea of.