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Originally Posted by MsLady
This is the second time a scenerio like this has played out in front of the kids. It is traumatizing. Immature? I don't know. Unstable, for sure.
This is the first time he's threatened to call the police or social services on me. It's why I'm feeling traumatized. It was over the top.. completely blown out of proportion. He was in his head.. in fight/flight mode. He wasn't seeing the situation as it was. This is what scares me.
He's not physically aggressive. Most of the abuse are covert. I'm more concerned he'll turn the kids against me.
Against a compulsive liar? That would be dangerous for me.
The danger lies within the compulsive lying, the manipulations, the campaign smearing, etc.. to convince everyone that the children are best to live with him.
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From what you described, it’s obvious that he did not feel like he needed police to protect him from you, rather he threatened to call them just to hurt you. This behavior shows he should not be trusted IMHO.
It sounds like you are living with an abuser and terrified to make any waves out of fear of repercussions to yourself and your daughters. I agree, you have reason to feel like this.
