I guess you could look at it this way - If they weren't so formal with all the questions and maybe some rules etc, you may end up with a befriender that wasn't suited to your taste (and theirs for that matter). I would rather know they did a good matching job and that the whole thing had a better chance of working from the getgo than having to go through a number of different people before the right connection is made.
I certainly can imagine the anxiety the whole thing holds though...I think, once the initial "awkward feeling" time is over, you will have a great connection with someone who truly is a caring individual. It sounds all good to me! Wishing you well ((((((((teejai))))))))))

sabby