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Originally Posted by BethRags
The most important lesson I've learned from marriage - that I try my best to apply to all of life - is not to take anything personally.
It's absolutely fantastic that both of you are putting in a lot of effort toward your marriage and family.
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Yes, that's a good lesson. It's one I've struggled with, as well. I just have to let things go and not hold the torch every time he feels something. I'm tired of over-dissecting myself so he can "understand". Having already raised a son with special needs who had some pretty intense behaviours at times, I've been over explaining myself to death. I'm done with that. I just want to enjoy my little girls and raise them as a family.