I am so sorry you lost your mother.

I have lost both my grandparents and I never got to say goodbye to either of them. in the case of my grandmother, my mother stopped me from saying good bye (she is still to this day, a very abusive parent), and in the case of my grandfather he died at 3 A.M in the morning, I remember it like it was yesterday.. he fell off a roof and then died in the hospital.

and the call was such a shock. and at such a time