Six months ago, an old female friend made contact after 30+ years, divorced and she has 2 kids. She is troubled, but not reaching out for any help or anything. Just getting older and guess just wanted to finally check in after all these years. I've had on/off quicky email conversations with her and my 2 year new wife knew about this. The old "flame/girlfriend" is not a Christian and trying to gently nudge her into getting saved. I did tell her that I truly loved her when we were together at age 16/17, but I broke up with her due to distance, age and she had troubled parents that neither of us could deal with. Now my new wife, gets on my email and sees that I have emailed her on/off and stated that I loved the old flame way back then and even stated I have no desires for her except be a friend, like any of my other email/Facebook friends. Wife is terribly upset after reading posts and seeing videos of old music we shared as teens. What can I do/say to my WIFE that I already haven't told her other than I LOVE her and married HER and she has nothing to be concerned over. My wife was married twice before, divorced the first time, husband died the second time. My wife is an old high school friend and we got together after talking on Facebook. i was married to my job since age 18 and got married at 59 for the first time. HELP, do I delete the old flame's email and have no contact? What should I do? I left my computer up/open so my wife if she wanted to SNEEK IN on my emails, she could to see that i had nothing to hide. She chose to do that yesterday while I was gone, and now is upset that I have had this on/off email with the ex on "old" stuff and now what's all over the news, like riots, etc. Thank you. HELP!