What I know about him is that, on one hand, he has a low opinion of himself. He's referred to himself as a "creep" 3x in our 6yr relationship. He admits he's emotionally unstable, codependent, and has insecurities about his physical appearances and educational struggles. But, on the other hand, he sees himself as a "good person" he's proud of. He talks about his accomplishments regarding being a recovered addict. When I see him openly flirting with women, he comes off over-confident, loud, and chatty. When he's in a social group, he draws attention to himself, is the one cracking jokes, a social butterfly. So I see two sides in him.

Is this what #3 means?