I think itīs very hard or more or less impossible to know how this teacher would react. In some other forums teachers write about how they got a letter or a card from a former student and how happy that made them. Several also recommend me sending a card.
As this teacher is the only one with her name in this city I only had to search for her on our "White pages". Me personally hadnīt found that creepy if I knew I was very easy to find.
In some ways I think she probably has enough with the people she already has in her life and in other ways I think she might think it would be fun to talk to/send mail to a former student from so far back. Sheīs in her eighties.
I donīt actually risk anything as the possibility to meet with her randomly again is more or less zero. The town is rather big and I spend very little time here as I donīt live here any longer, I was just visiting some family.
If I got a greeting from someone who met me twenty years ago I think I had replied even if I didnīt remember that much of the person. At least if I understood I meant something to him/her.
Thereīs of course always a risk that this teacher feels she doesnīt want to start any new contacts and feels we donīt have anything in common beside that time in school back in the days.
In a way I understand it might feel intrusive and at the same time there are so many sources for finding people so itīs not that you need to pry to find out someoneīs address. Perhaps the thing itself, looking someone up, is what feels intrusive to some.
Itīs like either or, she might be glad and find it fun that I recognised her after all those years and donīt mind sending me some lines back. Or sheīll find it odd getting a card from someone she hasnīt met for very long.
I would be thrilled if an old teacher I liked suddenly sent me a card and looked me up to find my address. But Iīm not that fussy about people looking for information like home addresses and similar.
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