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Old Jul 12, 2020, 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted by AceScot View Post
My wife, best friend and only love of 27years has told me our marriage is over. I have suffered from depression over our relationship and this last episode was too much for my wife. I can see the it has affected her more than at any other time. I need advice on how to move on, l cannot get her out of my head and any memory or even a song l hear reminds and upsets me. I feel I will not have a life after this. Anybody else came through a toxic time like this and found solace afterward.
Work on yourself and work on your depression, is my advice. One way through separation and the ending of a relationship is to work on self improvement. This will help build or rebuild your self esteem, you will feel better about yourself as you work towards personal goals and you will feel better as you see yourself improving over time.
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