Yes!! He feels I've been keeping records of our emails and text messages. He questioned me about that. Now he's very careful in what he texts and will ask me to come over to his room and talk about it.

This is why I've had such a hard time bouncing back from this. I feel like he IS trying to build a case against me.. hence the "physical abuse!!" .. "I'm going to call the police!!" It's summer and our windows were open. He was performing for an audience as "witness". I didn't scream or yell, though. His family definitely met him outside afterwards to talk about what happened. He's saying he was yelling to "protect the girls". If you look at the BPD list I posted, it talks about temporary "paranoia". I feel that's definitely what happened. He knows there's an issue about him demanding our daughter to sleep in his room. That night he texted me that she would be. I wanted to check in on her to make sure she was ok, and that she truly wanted to be there. He panicked that I came in to "take her away".. he was wild in the eyes.. but he completely misread my body language, tone of voice, and would not have me talk with her or comfort her. He was in his head. So he probably believes he was "protecting" her.

The following day, I had a heart-to-heart talk with her. He asked if he could stay. I said no. Again, he tells her to call for him if she needed him.. implying that he'd "rescue" her again.. putting ideas in her head. After our talk, he "thanked" me. I responded with, "Well, that's what I was trying to do last night," before the scenario blew up. His reaction was as if I was totally BSing him. I then said I walked in quietly and spoke to her name softly before he even noticed me. He was too busy texting.. NOT comforting a young child. He totally denied that happened. I said, "Hey, she was calm until you jolted in bed and started screaming." He walked away because he has zero memory of that. He was volatile and in his own movie script.