My T never called any of my alters directly. Sometimes she would ask if anyone had any input/questions/comments/want-to-cuss-her-out. And when any did show up on their own she treated them with respect and gave them the time they needed and worked wonderfully with all of us. It did take her a while to figure out when I would switch because they also were very subtle and didn't always want to say who it was.

Also, prosecarousel, I'm not sure how much its talked about around here (I'm kind-of new around here... haven't posted much), but there are still many Pdocs, Ts, etc that do not believe in DID. I was made aware of this recently. So maybe the doctor that gave you the look because of his ignorance.