I need to also reiterate to him that IF he blows up even just one more time at me, that I am divorcing him and that there's no way to move forward with him. I'm pretty certain I said this the night we talked about all of this and I've told him that he's on very thin ice right now, but I want to reiterate to him how serious I am. I don't care if it means he needs to walk on eggshells with me. I am not tolerating this behavior, and it must stop.

After I had told him or informed him that our marriage is on the rocks, the next day he came back to me with "it's not on the rocks. It's in repair... we're healing it." He needs to know that in my mind, it's on the rocks..... sure, it's in repair but he's still on very thin ice.