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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
It sounds like you are saying he sleeps in a separate bedroom from you, and sometimes he insists your daughter sleep in his bed with him. 
Have you considered he could be abusing your daughter?
His alienating treatment of you and behavior towards the girls are classic red flags for suspicion of his sexual child abuse.
I do have some experience with BPD, but I wouldn’t even know where to start in explaining and it’s about my having emotional dysfunction tied to an extremely difficult dynamic with my husband. These things I described are parts of possibly having BPD.
But, I’m also really people smart and astute. I’m concerned for what you described involving your girls. |
Yeah I thought of something being off, just was afraid to say it. I think MsLady said she cosleeps with the children while she still breastfeeds as it’s easier, so he sleeps in the other room. I am not sure about 3-year old, I think breastfeeding was for a baby not a 3 year old. Yes I am not particularly understanding why dad takes a little girl in his bed either. Not suggesting anything sinister per se but I am just not understanding.
She is getting older. At some point she will start pre school, which I’d very much encourage as soon as pandemics calms down and she will be sharing she sleeps in bed with her dad. It might cause some questioning.