i dunno free... i see several sides (naturally, since i have about 14 diff voices to listen to)... one thought is that all my t's have always said i could say anything i wanted to them - even if it was "go to h***." because they know a. i'm really quiet, b. emotions come up, c. i've been silenced all my life and it is healing to be able to talk. d. that sometimes they're gonna push the envelope, and the envelope is gonna bite back.
i also see what perna is saying.... so maybe it depends on the t - if they take it personally or not, if they are in an ok mood that day.... i think that if i had said that, my t would say something like let's breathe for a moment and see if we can find what upset you"... my old t would have laughed wildly and then ask me what prompted that. i can't imagine them asking me to leave the office.

Sorry free (((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))) i know you're struggling right now.
kiya